If you were raped, would you want to raise the child who reminded you of that trauma?

If you used all protection correctly, is it fair you should have to give up such a large part of you life due to fault in that contraceptive? If you couldn’t afford to support that child, would they be better off living a poor quality life without many essentials, or in a foster home bouncing through the system feeling unwanted and unloved when the outcome could have been prevented before the child even turn from a organism to a fully functioning person? If men could get pregnant, and they were the one who had to make these sacrifices raise this child, most would feel differently, but because it’s not them who have to undertake this what in some situations would be called as a burden it’s easy to judge right?