This is a decision you have made for yourself and I hope to God you will never be in a position to actually hove to make that choice. However having to create a person (an embryo in the early stages can not be called a person - it will become with time but currently it is not) that you do not want to mother, that you do not have the capability to raise at it deserves to be raised, and that might traumatise you further, causing two lives to be ruined in the process is not a law that is ever practically enforceable. Women have found a way to abort unwanted births forever and the only thing we have a say about is how safe we want the them to be in that case. If you really want to reduce the number of abortions happening, concentrate on introducing more legislation that will support parents, more safe-sex education, and free birth control. For a moment imagine yourself being a young girl at that crossroad, having to make that choice, and don't play the scenario out in your favour, but imagine the worst case scenario, and after the baby is born imagine everything going even more wrong (depression, you loose your job, you have no community to support you, etc. ) - Come back to your current self - Do you really want to be responsible for someone having to life through all that? I do not. The choice will never be yours, but what you can choose is to either be a support to people who really need support in that moment, or you can be a distant oppressor, probably so removed from the women you try to rule over that unfortunately you will never have to face the consequences of your actions.